March 28, 2017

Most Christians are doomed to have horrible sex lives.  Obviously, they’re not the only ones, as intimacy is difficult for a lot of people, but Christians have a perceived religious mandate to have terrible sex.  This despite the fact that the bible contains some prett...

February 23, 2017

Part One

How did we get here?

Kids today are not allowed to do many of the things we Gen Xer’s did growing up.  My brother and I rode our bikes all over the neighborhood when we were 8-12.  By the time I was 12, I was riding all over Arcadia to friends’ houses.  This wou...

February 10, 2017

According to everything I’ve read, married people don’t have a lot of sex.  The classic story describes a couple falling in love who can’t keep their hands off of each other.  They have sex all the time, say 4-5 times a week.  Maybe more.  As they continue dating, this...

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