August 2, 2019


If we’re honest with ourselves, there are countless reasons for a parent to be mad in every sense of the word.  Whether due to loss of sleep, hopes, dreams, or sex, to mind-numbing routines of feedings, rides to school, practices, or rehearsals, “madness” as an...

August 28, 2017

I wrote this little rant this morning on Facebook:

I'm losing faith in education. While I always believe the liberal arts is the only hope for saving society,I don't see how it helps anyone in this capitalist system succeed. Teachers are poorly compensated for the amou...

February 23, 2017

Part One

How did we get here?

Kids today are not allowed to do many of the things we Gen Xer’s did growing up.  My brother and I rode our bikes all over the neighborhood when we were 8-12.  By the time I was 12, I was riding all over Arcadia to friends’ houses.  This wou...

February 4, 2017

First, some context.  I spent over a week on this post, knowing it will rub some people the wrong way.  This is just the beginning of the discussion on education.

When our first kid started kindergarten in Pasadena, we were anxious.  Everyone in the SGV “knows” tha...

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